The Summer of Self Love
Because at this point, why not?
You know the feeling when you’re in love, and everything feels amazing? You look at the world and feel blissed out. You want happiness for others. When they win, you win. There’s no worrying or comparison. You're in love and wouldn’t change a thing about your life. Then the honeymoon ends, and we swing the other way. We’re miserable. We’re resentful. We’re afraid. And someone else’s happiness feels like salt in our wounds.
Other people’s relationships seem so much better than ours; we justify why they have it, and we don’t. We’re not good enough. Or maybe they’re fake. Whatever the story, all that thinking ends up feeling gross. Perhaps we’re even relieved when someone else struggles because then, it’s not just us. That kinda vibe, pointing the finger, judging, blaming each other, competing, protecting ourselves and hustling is rampant on earth right now.
What if we could fall back in love? What if we could return to that sweet honeypot of happiness? But this time, not falling for someone else or something separation from swings us back into pain and resentment.
We can.
We can fall in love with ourselves.
Love is in the air as we approach the solstice and a juicy Jupiter shift. Right now, can you reach for the light, warm up after a long winter and possibly frustrating spring? Summer vibes are on their way, and is there a better season for being in love?
Self-love is not fluffy; it’s how we change the world. When we love who we are, we soften and unlock our best self. A world of people being their best selves becomes the best version of humanity. Then, what could go right? What is possible? What can we create?
When you love yourself, you aren’t worried about what someone else is doing. You don’t judge them or criticize them. You don’t flail and fight to survive because you know no matter what, you are always going to figure it out. When you love yourself, you love life, and you love all the things in your life. From here, what plagues us becomes projects and opportunities for repair.
We are each other’s solutions. A room full of people is an exponential universe of possibilities because we’re each made of stardust. Feel the magic of all these constellations colliding. That’s miracle energy. What you have, someone needs, and someone else is waiting with your answered prayers. But when we hate or guard ourselves from each other, we’ll never give or receive those miracles.
The work isn’t to force everyone to get along; it’s to love ourselves so much that we genuinely connect with the world and its people.
I’ve always been a community person; thanks to my mom, my house was where all the kids hung out. I was the runner-up valedictorian in high school—the kinda person who’s friends with everyone. When I was 21, I started hosting meditation circles, and since then, I’ve taught classes, led retreats, built communities online and offline, and made friends who feel like family worldwide. But recently, I had to check myself and level up because the noise was getting so loud, and I was afraid. I felt like I was not good enough, not as fancy as others and not doing enough.
I’ve learned that the world is full of amazing people doing incredible things. Things I never dreamed possible have happened. And I am reminding myself the best is yet to come. But I can’t do it alone and don't want to.
I think being a writer is a perfect analogy because, in many ways, we need to have an internal practice; we have to get the words out, listen to our thoughts and carve out solitude to bring those stories into form. But then, we need the community to bring those projects to life. We need fellow writers for feedback, editors to polish, and publishers to deliver the products.
Life is an ecosystem. The best feeling is being part of something greater. Something magical happens when you are in a community with others. Especially when it’s a space where you can be yourself. I think that's what it's all about. Being authentic and living in places that permit us to be ourselves will save the world.
But we must love and know ourselves first and bring our rays of sunlight to the sky. Then, we move through the world in that butterfly-feeling-head-over-heels way, and everything is beautiful again. We beam our stardust into the world, and it unites us. When we are in the warmth of self-love, we become light and can see each other.
So, if you feel hopeless, love yourself a little more. Then, ask yourself what you love, and start doing it. Even if it's just commenting on a post or following a new creator. Engagement isn’t just about metrics; it’s about the human experience and brings benefits that go way beyond an algorithm. Go to the class. Take the trip to the library, sit in the coffee shop, and watch the world go by. Participate with life. Look through a lens of self love and catch the sweet moments our ego minds miss.
The Live Cosmically Solstice Online Retreat
One Day. One Frequency. Live from Nicaragua.
Step away from the noise and remember what you're really made of: stardust.
On June 21st, 2025, during the powerful Summer Solstice, you’re invited to a one-day online retreat unlike anything else.
This isn’t just another online event—it’s a shared dimension where we dream, heal, and begin building the world we actually want.
What You’ll Experience
No retreat center, no plane ticket. Just you, your device, and a willingness to live cosmically.
You’ll:
⟡ Feel that “hell yes, this is what being alive should feel like!” moment
⟡ Learn to bring cosmic awareness into your everyday life
⟡ Connect with real humans on the same wavelength
⟡ Reignite your spark (yes, that one hiding under your to-do list)
⟡ Have FUN—because what’s the point otherwise?
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“SO grateful I booked this session with you!!! As I said on the call, I could already feel how healing it was and how much it will help my mindset and focal points as I head into this year and those beyond. I'm so so so grateful. I don't know how you do what you do, but it is MAGIC. I can't wait to continue to dive into this reading as I digest and process everything! Thank you so so much!”
